Tuesday, December 15, 2009 ♥

Marriage Article ♥ 3:56:00 PM

Today went to Msn.com and saw this article about marriage and the topic is

Could Your Marriage Survive an Affair?

It attracts me and so i went to read the article to find out what is it about. Anyway, its not something to be afraid of reading about it indeed you can learn more about things to make you marriage more meaningful and ever lasting.

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You hurt, you hate, you want to flee. But is walking away from your marriage the only answer? No, say these four couples, who are struggling to get past the ultimate betrayal.

By Michael Callahan

You all can go to the website and read more about how husband and wife overcome all the obstacle they face when they found out about their the other half having affair.

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlerb.aspx?cp-documentid=22797787&GT1=32023

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There are also article about

The Truth About Why Men Cheat

Counselor M. Gary Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men's infidelity.

By Nicole Yorio

Their topic includes

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.
77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated.
40% of cheating men met the other woman at work.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
Only 6% of cheating men had sex with a woman after meeting her that same day or night.

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27 Things Every Woman Should Know to Have Better Sex

Lock on the bedroom door? Check. Lustful twinkle in your eye? Check. The must-haves for better sex are pretty simple. The must-knows are right here. Read on for the bedroom wisdom you can't live without.

http://www.realbeauty.com/health/fitness/sexual/twenty-seven-things-every-woman-should-know-to-have-better-sex?link=rel&dom=msn&src=syn&con=art&mag=rbk

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30 Days to a Happier Life

They say change is good — but it sure doesn't feel that way when your world seems to be spinning out of control. Follow these guiding truths from Ariane de Bonvoisin, author of the new book The First 30 Days, and that's exactly how long it'll take you to be able to face life's surprises with confidence, optimism, and hope.

http://www.realbeauty.com/body-mind/well-being/confidence/thirty-days-to-a-happier-life?link=rel&dom=msn&src=syn&con=art&mag=rbk
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Lastly, the most interesting article about

What Men Really Think About (During) Sex

Ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind during sex? Well, you can stop waiting for your guy to tell you what he's thinking when things get hot and heavy! We have the lowdown on what real men think about kissing, hot dates, foreplay, fantasies, getting busy, and more.

Excerpted from REDBOOK's 500 Sex Tips by Judy Dutton.

By Judy Dutton

Inside the Male Mind

On what gets him in a sexy state of mind: “I think my wife is totally hot. She'll point out what she perceives as flaws, but I think she's nuts. Even if I'm not in the mood, I'll catch a glimpse of her taking off her bra, and bam! I'm in the mood. Which is great at night, but slightly problematic in the morning if she's trying to throw some clothes on to make her train.” —Dan, 31

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Enjoy reading and i hope all of the married couple to have a ever lasting love and relationship =)

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Friday, December 11, 2009 ♥

Random ♥ 4:08:00 PM

Now i am so boring in the office!!! Nobody entertain me especially the weirdo Serene. When she is in the office, we would email each other or gossip nonsense things by doing that time would pass super duper fast. My ai ren Mei Zhen went to Bankok to enjoy her life and hope she will buy lotsa lotsa gift for me =X

Anyway, yesterday i crazy Serene i can say she is super duper free for doing Art & Craft in the office. Below will be the picture showing what she draw and write to us -.-

The picture she edited for me -.-

She drew this picture for our colleague Xiao Hui

Yesterday in the office, really have no mood to do anything at all. Quarreled with Hubby again. Why this have to happen almost every week? Sigh... I think the main problem is because the both of us are lacking of communication. Sometime i can only be seeing him for 3 days a week, whenever he came back home but i am working. By the time i reaches home, its already noon time so both of us dont really have the time for each other.
Now Hubby course gonna start half year earlier than expected and he will be staying in the school every weekday and will only be home on Saturday and Sunday only. I really cannot imagine what will happen after his course start. I really hope that by the time the both of us can really solve the problem between us.

I've been crying in the office silently and luckily yesterday chatted with Hui Fang, she tells me alot of things about marriage and it's really a real fate to become husband and wife.
Basically i wanna congrates her for finding herself a true love and it's a shock that suddenly she tells me she is now planning for her wedding. Never thought that she would get married so soon and of cos i am happy for her. Finally finally finally there is one of my friend are getting married soon. I will be waiting for her invitation and be her "Jie Mei" =X

Labels: Hui Fang, Serene, Work

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Monday, December 7, 2009 ♥

Saturday girls outing ♥ 2:47:00 PM

Weee... Finally its our 22 girl's outing (but short of Marval) with Caen. Both Serene and Mei Zhen have to work on Saturday so basically meet both of them at around 130pm at Tampines Mall.

- Meet up with Serene first
- Serene bought a small gift for her bf while i get something else for Hubby and Me
- Mei Zhen reach all of us went to Ajisan to had our lunch
- After lunch went for a stroll
- Cabbed down to Plaza Singapura

The Soft Shell Crab (3 piece for $5.90)

Mei Zhen de dunno what

Serene Tom Yam Raman

My Volcano

The lunch total cost of at around nearly $60. Super bo hua and their food are not so delicious as before.

Caen and Serene

Naught Caen is so Happy~

At Plaza Singapura been staying at Mei Zhen work's place to accompany her, reading newspaper and help to serve customers. Yeah Yeah.. I am too free and nothing better to do at home. -.-

Us taken at the m@gazine Shop

After Mei Zhen knock off from work, rushed to Carrefour to get our suicide price sushi as i promise Hubby that i would buy for him. Outside the Carrefour i accidentally saw my favorite Hello Kitty brand Mug so get 1 for myself and 1 for Mei Zhen.
After that waited for Mei Zhen friend to come fetch us to SUPPER!!!! Yeah.. We had Frog Leg Porridge for our supper. Yimmy Yummy.

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Labels: Caen, Mei Zhen, Serene, Shopping, Supper

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Friday, December 4, 2009 ♥

Shockening ♥ 12:14:00 PM

Yesterday as usual, reaches office and i will on my computer and open my company email. The very first moment i got this email and i was so bloody hell stunned.
The email title stated NEW KIDS ON THE BLOCK and i went to open the email and give me a hell shock.

The photo of me is like so fat can, I took it not long after i gave birth to Caen and its like freaking ugly can. I bet my whole company people must be laughing so hard in the office the moment when they receive the email. ROAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Wednesday, December 2, 2009 ♥

♥ 12:00:00 PM

My blog are getting lesser and lesser people reading due to my dead blog -.-
Been super duper lagging of updates as from the day i start working, seldom i went out. Daily like schedule are like same Work --> Fetch Caen from grandma place --> Home --> Sleep.

Anyway, Hubby and I finally went to apply a new flat located at Punggol. No choice but to get new flat as compared to 2nd hand flat they are much more cheaper and we can get subsidy from government as we apply for Married Child Priority (MCP) Scheme. Actually wanted to apply a 3 room flat but as Hubby and my salary add together are more than 3K so we have no choice and have to apply for a 4 room flat.

The price rage for the 4 room flat are

The most sian-ness things is there are only 403 flat available and there are 2618 people apply it.
But government are fair as they have set a rule for 1st timer

First-Timers

(i) Supply set aside for First-timers
HDB safeguards at least 95% of the flats available for public application for the First-timer applicants. This will give greater priority to first timers, who generally have more urgent housing needs than second timers.

Under the Sale of Balance Flats, where the number of units offered for public application is less than 10 units, all flats will be set aside for allocation to first-timer applicants. Second-timers will be invited to select if there are still balance flats for selection after all the first-timers have been invited to select these flats.

(ii) Higher Chances in the Ballot
First-timer applicants are given 2 chances in the shortlisting of their applications, as compared to a Second-timer applicant, who will get one chance. In addition, First-timer applicants applying under the Married Child Priority Scheme (MCPS) will receive 2 more chances, i.e. total of 4 chances, as compared to First-timer applicants. Please see illustration below:

Type of Applicant	Number of chances assigned
Second-Timer	1
First-Timer	2
Married Child Priority Scheme (Second-Timer)	2
Married Child Priority Scheme (First-Timer)	4

Hopefully i will get selected on the January 2010!! I must really pray hard hard.
Last but not least, I've order Tingkat service from Kim's Kitchen as I've compared the prices where i always da bao from and sometime i would skip my dinner due to tiredness. I have to thanks Sally for recommending me the Kim's Kitchen.

Rates of Tingkat meal:

* 2 pax $170
* 3 pax $240
* 4 pax $300
* 5 pax $360

All the above prices come with an additional 7% GST

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Sunday, November 29, 2009 ♥

Great Grand Mum 84th Birthday Celebration ♥ 2:27:00 PM

It has been like a week since i last update my blog.. Work has been getting more and more busy than usual, maybe it's due to year end and there are more people taking annual leave. Whenever I'm back home after work, i would feel super duper tired and that's the cause of lagging updates of my blog.

Now i shall update some of the stuff and pictures of me in the office.

Me wearing the stupid PPE

Snap shot by Xiao Hui

The work that i always do

I've been enjoying myself in the office maybe it's because of Serene!!! We will always crack jokes and talk nonsense whenever we are free but when it comes to work, all of us sure will be VERY VERY serious about it =X

Okay.. Enough of my rubbish and back to the main topic of the post.

Friday had a birthday celebration for my great grandmum at her house. It's her 84th Birthday celebration and her place is packed with all our relatives. Reaches her place at around 1:20pm and soon after we started our buffet session. The weather in the afternoon is super duper hot and it started to rain heavily at around 3pm. It has been like ages since all of us had a gathering and i bet my great grand-mother is super happy so see so many people gather at her place. I bet our next gathering will be on the Chinese New Year which falls on the Valentine Day.

Below will be pictures taken at my great grand-mother place

The birthday cake

Caen are waiting for us to sing birthday song

so that she can clap hand

Caen and her great great grand-mother

Blowing the candle

P.S : Our next birthday celebration will be on the 13th of December which will be my Mum birthday.

Labels: Birthday Celebration, Serene, Work

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Saturday, November 21, 2009 ♥

Dinner out at Cafe Cartel ♥ 9:56:00 PM

Thursday meet up with Hubby after work as he gonna go configure his Blackberry phone stuff. Ohyeah, on the Tuesday, Hubby bought me a HTC Touch 2 phone for me!!! The naughty Caen always throw my phone on the floor and alot of problem with the LG phone's too. So when signing contract Hubby decided to buy a phone for me... Heart heart so muchie...

Ehem...Went to Cafe Cartel for our dinner, it has been like super long since we last went there. I really enjoy my dinner over there, the food portion is so BIG and the service is not bad too.

The peach tea

The Soup : Cream of Chicken

Enjoying the soup while waiting for the food

The bread with butter

Hubby's Pork Rib

My Hawaiian Pork Chop

The Yummy Food

Caen not happy with her daddy

Has been quite stress out ever since i start work, everyday i only could get to sleep for 3 hours. Maybe i am stress of all the doggies over there as always i am more afraid of BIG DOGSSSSSS...

Labels: Caen, Dinner, Time with Bb

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Monday, November 16, 2009 ♥

First day of work ♥ 10:00:00 PM

Today woke up earlier than i expected, yeah, didn't really sleep well maybe due to anxiousness. Leave my house at 730am and reaches the pick up point at 740am, met Serene and chatted with her till 815am and finally our company shuttle bus has arrived!!!
Basically, for the first day of work the staff bring me and stroll around the company and get to know all the stuff. My office are filled with all the male staff and i am the only female staff there and i swear i am super duper boring as there are nothing much things for me to do. I've been yawning at the office since 10am but luckily time passes quite fast. Oh ya.... and the most sian things is that i have to wear Safety Helmet and Safety Boots whenever i am out of the company.

In office too boring then Zhi-lian

Gonna end this post for today as i am super duper tired. I will update my cruise photos when i am free and more awake as there are 100s over photos to upload. Ciao~

Labels: Work

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Sunday, November 15, 2009 ♥

1st day on the Cruise ♥ 11:10:00 PM

It's the day we will be going on cruise and the whole morning all of us are preparing and checking of items to bring over. At around 3pm all of us went to take train and i am super duper excited about what will happen on the cruise and will there be as fun as Virgo.

After we check in not long, we went to the chinese restaurant to have our dinner. It's quite disappointing that the food it's not as delicious than Virgo.

Below will be the picture of the dinner

After our dinner, Mum went to Casino and the rest of us went to the 7th level to have some relaxation. Have some chit chat session with grandma and see Caen playing with herself. At around 9pm all of us went back to our room and wait for the time for our supper!! Did not take any photos as i forgot to bring my handphone along.

Our Family photos

Caen and Daddy

Myself

Sis, Caen and Me

Sis, Myself, Caen and Grandma

Labels: Caen, Dinner, Family Outing

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Monday, November 9, 2009 ♥

I've GOT A JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥ 6:29:00 PM

Friday afternoon i went over to Mei Zhen place as i gonna try on a suitable clothes from her in order for me to go for a Job Interview on Saturday!!! When i reaches her place, surprisingly most of the people are at home and on the Saturday they will be holding a birthday celebration for ShiMin.

Tired me after job interview

Having a sleepless night again due to no reason, luckily i can still manage to get myself up and go for the job interview. I'm not late for the interview but instead I reach there early =p
Feeling quite nervous as for the past 2 years, I've not been working and I'm afraid that i might be disqualified for the job T.T
When it's time for me to go in to the boss office, i am getting more nervous and luckily the boss is not those fierce fierce type instead he is a friendly person. For the 15 minutes interview, he just tell me what my job scoop are all about and the rules and regulations in the company. That's mean I AM HIRED!!!!!

Yeah yeah, I will be starting work on the 16th November!!!!

Took cab back to Mei Zhen house meanwhile i feel really unwell maybe it's the lacking of sleep. Started to lie on the bed from 11am - 5pm but i still couldn't manage to fall asleep. Actually i am suppose to attend a ITE Class Chalet and i give it a miss as i couldn't even stand up due to head spinning.
At around 6pm, people start to come over to Mei Zhen place and help the little 8 years old girl to celebrate her birthday.

The decoration

The birthday girl

The birthday cake

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The cupcakes

Below will be photos of naughty Caen

The naughty girl

Now i am busy helping Caen to look and register for her and put her in Child Care Centre when she turns 18 month. PAP Child Care Center month fee are $166 but the intake will only be on 2010 October. My house downstairs Child Care Center are $368 monthly, and OMG it's like $200 difference. I should make a plan now with Hubby.

Below will be the funny video of MEI ZHEN~

Labels: Birthday Celebration, Mei Zhen

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Little Caen ♥

Hello Everyone

This blog are specially created for our little girl Seet Caen
Just wanna write down every single things about us (Hubby, Caen and Me) and including the surrounding of my friends.
Hope by the time we are old, we can just come to this blog and recall every happy moment and memories.
This blog are mostly updated by Me!!(Caen's mummy)
oink oink online

Since 14th Dec 2008

The Family ♥

♥ Profile

The Mistress
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Shi Yin
07th May 1987
Taurus
@ Muar Hospital (Malaysia)
Siling Primary School
Changkat Changi Secondary School
ITE College East (Simei)

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The Mister
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Jason Seet
25th April 1990
Taurus
KKH
Stamford Primary School
Macpherson Secondary School
ITE College Central (Tampines)

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Seet Caen, 薛可恩
Born on 30th July 2008
@ KKH
Weigh 2.840KG

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Calender ♥

♥ To Do List

08/09/09 - The day which my hubby POP!!
09/09/09 - Happy 2 Years together
16/09/09 - Hubby signed contract for Air-Force
17/10/09 - Having Deepavali Celebration
30/10/09 - Caen gonna go for the 4th 5 in 1 injection
07/11/09 - ITE Mate Class Chalet
10/11/09 - Hubby's getting his Blackberry phone and PAY~
11/11/09 - CRUISE CRUISE CRUISE
14/11/09 - Back from Cruising
16/11/09 - First day at Work
13/12/09 - Mum Birthday
25/12/09 - Christmas Day

Yearns ♥

♥ i want

- Hope Hubby will be selected in the Air-Force
- Holiday Trip to Taiwan, Hong Kong, Japan, Perth
- To have our own house
- To buy new Handphone
- Hubby got more time for Caen and Me
- Our own Hello Kitty decorated car
- To have another wedding ceremony with Hubby
- To have another wedding photo shot
- Everlasting love with Hubby
- To give Caen a better life

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